It's Time

The other day I was reading my horoscope and it said "you will experience a relationship split around the 26th that will prove beneficial for both of you." Now, if you know my significant other or myself you know this does not mean him. Over my dead body will that one be happening with him.... But my ex however is a different story.

For the past 95 days I have spent time EVERY day trying to get him to finally sign and file the papers with me. We decided a long time ago this will be a joint petition. We're adults and can get this done, our children are all that matter. This week actually marks 1 year since we started mediation and I have bent over, backwards and sideways in this divorce to make this finally happen. I can not express enough that its time. I asked for this divorce in October of 2010 and have been more then patient.

Today I took a different approach. I asked for this as a gift from him for my birthday. I said its all I want and I want nothing but that. He said yes at first but then started the dragging of the feet again. I sympathetically explained that we'll still be friends and parents but this "obligation" needs to end so we can move on.

Fingers crossed this is finally coming to an end so We can both move forward..